I am the Captain of my Soul

Lately the TRUTH that I cannot blame anybody else for the quality of my life has really sunk in to my heart. I can't blame my past, the things I wish my parents would have taught me, abuse or any of the other "heart breaking" things that I feel others have done to me. 

I ALONE am responsible for my happiness, regardless of my circumstances. 

We are all equal. You and I are just as capable as achieving our dreams as anybody else. Don't let the "gremlins" (aka Satan) tell you that their is something wrong with you, that you are less capable, that you have nothing to give, that you are worthless or somehow unlovable. 

YOU are capable of making GOOD CHOICES that lead to your happiness. 

Our culture is a culture of blaming. It is much easier to point your finger at someone else instead of look in the mirror and fess up to your mistakes, and take control and responsibility for your life! 

Blaming others is one of the most toxic things you can do in your life! You can't control others, the only person you have control over is yourself. You are not responsible for others choices, they are. It is not right to blame others for your unhappiness. The key to happiness is in your own pocket, don't put it in somebody else's. 

At the end of our lives we will all have a PERSONAL interview with Christ. Nobody else will be there. There will be no one to point fingers at. We will have to take responsibility for all of our choices, actions and words. We alone will have to answer to what we did with our lives. 

So, if you are blaming someone for your unhappiness, stop it and take control of your life! This TRUTH has set me free! 

Happiness is attainable for you and it is not dictated by those around you. 

This allows us to truly LOVE others, to forgive and hand things over to Christ, to embrace our individual and unique role, to let go of control and remember that God is in charge, to be our best selves, to not get pulled in to others negativity, to stand up for what we believe in even if we stand alone, to be leaders, and to overcome any obstacle in our way to our dreams.

We are FREE to CHOOSE, we are agents to act, not to be acted upon. Every choice we make is choosing happiness or misery. We are free to choose but not free to choose the consequences, they come as they do. Satan cheats our souls and tries to convince us that he has happiness to offer us but all he really has is misery, he wants all of us to be miserable like him. Wickedness never was happiness...I believe that is righteousness. God's work and glory is our eternal happiness! 

The truest form of freedom is trusting yourself to make good choices, being a master of yourself. conditioning your higher self to make your choices instead of being impulsive or addicted to something. This is truly freedom!  

"Life is not happening to you, you're creating it!"